Respect
· Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds.
· You don't have to agree with all that we say or do but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions.
· Treat us as you would like to be treated. Yes. I do agree for this statement. Kalau nak orang treat u baek, please wat perkara sama untuk orang laen treat u dgn baek.
Romance
· Treat us like your girlfriend even after we become your wife.
· Date nights, kissing like when we first started dating (Forward to my future husband, ngee~) -- all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids to be bathed. Ataupun bawak balik bunga ros without any reason. aaauuw.. so sweet~
Time
· Simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says ‘love’ more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters includes helping around the house.
· The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? Saling bantu each other.. untuk menjaga kerukunan rumahtangge
Dinner
· Great us at the door after a long day with fish sticks makes us swoon. Even xpandai masak pun xpe.. anything else.. because it shows that you've been thinking about us.
Communication
· Women are vocal creatures.
· We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure.
· So let us know when you think we're HOT. Tell us we're beautiful. Contoh aje la ni... It helps us feel good. Tell us that you love the CUPCAKES we made. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub. It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful.
Consistency
· This doesn't mean be boring and predictable.
· It means that we know you will (Yeah~ I no that no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need.
Engagement
· Sila dengar apabila kami bercakap dengan anda. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things.
Humor and Humility
· Just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down. So, xmao ceyes2 la kan. Funny2 selalu tp bukan LOYAR buruk okek..
Challenge
· Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be, or achieve what we desire.
· In other words, don't support lazy or bad habits.
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